Who likes roughness and power?

I believe that adults can decide for themselves what they like and BDSM is no exception. But only if it's not by force, but by mutual desire of both partners. We recently bought a bdsm bar. As you have realized, we are not the most shy people and can afford to experiment. But we are still far away from the professionals. I advise you not to be shy and talk to your partner about it, I am sure she will support you.